Tuesday, January 10, 2006
About Me
- Name: Aunt B
- Location: Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Like Donnell Alexander says, "It's about completing the task of living with enough spontaneity to splurge some of it on bystanders, to share with others working through their own travails a little of your bonus life." But, it's mostly the kind of place that folks looking for "girls and cars" stumble across by accident.
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WHERE TO DIRECT YOUR HATE MAIL AND LOVE LETTERS
ALL PROCEEDS GO TO BEER
THINGS I SAID RECENTLY
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- More Brilliance from Other Places
- Shug
- But I want to be the most brilliant person in the ...
- Ain't Nobody's Hero, But I Want to Be Heard
- Bratty Mrs. Wigglebottom
- If Both Dewayne and Sharon ask you to do something...
- Dinner with a Perfect Stranger
- A Man's Right to Choose
- One Bright Spot in this Cold
THE CAST OF CHARACTERS
Aunt B.--Your kind host.The Butcher--My youngest brother, who lives with me and works as, you guessed it, a butcher. He knows everyone in town.
The Recalcitrant Brother--Our middle brother, who lives in rural Georgia and has a kind of movie star life, if that movie star is Burt Reynolds in Deliverance.
The Reverend--Our Dad, a Methodist minister, perpetually three years from retirement.
Mom--Our Mom. She doesn't get a funny nickname because our mom will not stand for funny nicknames.
Mrs. Wigglebottom--My dog. She's got terrible manners.
The Corporate Shill--Or The Shill, as we call her. My friend from college who was constantly getting me into trouble and going to parties she neglected to tell me about where cute boys would ask her "Where's Aunt B.?"
The Legal Eagle--The Shill's husband.
The Super Genius--She lived next door to me my freshman year of college and we've been friends ever since my first day on the floor.
Miss J.--My first adult friend, meaning the first lasting friendship I made after college. She was my roommate in grad school.
Her Lover--Her Husband.
The Divine Ms. B.--Miss J.'s sister and one of my heroes, because she's brave and funny and mystic and fearless.
JR--My oldest friend. I've known her since I was in the second grade.
Elias--JR's husband and the person who's musical tastes have most strongly affected my own. Oh, how I long to be cooler than him!
The Professor--My closest friend here in Nashville. She's a genius, but she'll never tell you that.
The Man from GM--I've known him since I was 16 and he still hasn't forgiven me for telling him I was a vegetarian when I wasn't.
The Redheaded Kid--No one knows where he comes from or where he goes when he leaves here. I assume he's the Butcher's friend. The Butcher assumes he's mine.
9 Comments:
Yeah, zygotes are "partially born" all the time.
Those men were up there signing a bill because they were doing, in part, what a hell of a lot of women asked them to do.
Those are the two places where your argument falls down.
Kat beat me to it.
Is there no middle ground between a single-celled organism and an 8 month-along fetus?
I don't pretend to know when a lump of unique tissue makes the leap to being a citizen with rights, but I'm guessing it's somewhere between your two extemes.
Are you so extreme in your feminist views that you think it's cool to kill a baby that is perfectly capable of surviving outside the womb? How about when the child is two & mommy looses her job? Is it ok to kill them then? If no, why not? I mean I could never understand what it must be like for a woman with a two year old child, so I'm not qualified to have an opinion... right? Or what if the baby is a girl & plans to grow up & kill her own young? I'm sure you wouldn't want to deny her that privilege.
You are an animal...
Actually, Kat, I think this--Those men were up there signing a bill because they were doing, in part, what a hell of a lot of women asked them to do--makes my point in a more concise and direct way. So, if you think my argument breaks down in two places and I think you're just restating my point, then I don't think we're understanding each other.
Exador, of course I think there's a lot of middle ground. That wasn't my point. My point in this post was and remains the ways in which we attempt, and it seems successfully attempt, to discuss abortion as if it's just a matter of letting well-intended men reason out the landscape of such middle ground and then declaring it settled and how unsettling I find that.
As the Professor points out, abortion is just one slice of a whole pie of reproductive rights. I'd be just as grossed out if we were debating whether certain women should be allowed to reproduce. (In fact, I'm grossed out right now by the state of Virginia trying to legislate under what conditions women like me might have children.)
Anonymous, I am an animal, but I have no idea what that has to do with anything. You are an animal, too, unless there's some heretofore unknown to me species of plant that can type.
But yes, your careful reading of both my post and my mind has revealed that I do indeed want all women to have the legal right to off their children whenever they become inconvenient for them.
So, even though I suspect you dropped by to call me names and won't ever return, I'm going to do you the favor of spelling out for you my position. I'd ask that you read carefully, but I think we both know that you're committed to your position that I'm a monster and I'm committed to my position that you're an idiot, so do what you want.
Anyway, here it is: I think abortion in most cases is morally wrong. I think having an abortion without consulting and taking into consideration the wishes of the fetus's father (unless one is raped) is morally wrong. I think that having an abortion because it's more convenient than having a child is morally wrong. THEREFORE, I would not have an abortion unless I knew that the fetus was unable to survive outside me or unless I was raped or unless it would kill me to have the child.
But I am not every woman in the United States and I respect that other women have come to different conclusions.
I might disagree with those conclusions. I might wish and pray that they reached different conclusions. But I'm not going to stand by and pretend like it's okay to outlaw a medical procedure just because I think there are circumstances under which it's immoral.
According to the Catholics who put up the crosses on my way to Kroger, there are 3,600 abortions a day in the US, meaning there are a little over a million abortions a year. I might guess that's a bit high, but let's give them about a million. Pro-choice advocates claim that the abortion rates pre-Roe were probably about a million. I'm also guessing this is a bit high. I assume there are more abortions now that it is legal than there were when it was illegal.
But there were abortions when it was illegal. If you were rich enough or well-connected enough, the laws did not apply to you.
Being able to control how many children you have is the number one way for women to better their lives. So, if I have to weigh the moral evil of every woman--rich or poor--having the right to end her pregnancy against the moral evil of only rich women being able to terminate their pregnancies while poor women suffer, I think it's clear where I stand.
Prof,
I included the word citizen because it carries legal rights. If I pull of a scab, it's human tissue, so as far as I'm concerned all stages of pregnancy involve something human. The question is, when does it become a person that has the right to be protected by society from harm.
The fact remains that there is a point somewhere, whether it be at conception or 5 minutes before delivery, the point is there somewhere.
You forget about the many criminal convictions, where a person is charged with murder, or an additional murder, for killing a fetus.
Kat and Ex bring up valid points despite your snooty dismissal of them.
Anon, Wow. Where to start?
First, thanks for reminding everyone that "Loose" has now become a synonym for "Lose". Congrats on devolving the English language to the lowest common denominator.
Second, any female fetus who is already planning, whilst in still in the womb, to have an abortion of her own when she grows up is some kind of super mutant baby who will try to enslave humanity and should be aborted so that she and her army of super mutant babies can be stopped. Thankfully Roe v. Wade allows us to preemptively stop this monstrosity from ever gaining power. So, now you won't have to "loose" any sleep over it.
Prof, as always, you are just a barrel of laughs.
I see that most of the comments ignore Aunt B's excellent point, which is that a lot of the opposition to abortion makes a point of Not Mentioning Women. Because to do so would remind the participants that we have rights.
Not that you can't have other comments, but it would maybe be more interesting to talk about what Aunt B actually posted.
Yeah, and it would be more interesting to know if you and the other 'anonymous' were the same person.
Shit, make something up namewise if you are so concerned about being interesting.
Shoot, this blog collects libertarians like shit collects flies. That tickles me.
Glad to have you stop by, Julian.
I hope you didn't feel horribly misrepresented. I'm enjoying reading you at Sullivan's. But my point was and remains that it kind of ooks me out that there's a way women get removed from the abortion discussion and y'all made a good illustration.
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